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Getting the baby latched on properly can be awkward in the early weeks, while
you are both still learning, but you'll soon find yourself able to easily and
smoothly get your baby to the breast. As with most things, discreet
breastfeeding becomes easier with practice. "I have a low pain
tolerance and I just couldn’t take it if it hurt." One of the
first things a woman might say when asked what she has heard about breastfeeding
is, "I’m afraid it’s going to hurt!" Breastfeeding is not supposed to hurt. But,
breastfeeding has hurt some women. Luckily, we know a lot more now than we used
to. "My mother/husband/boyfriend/sister doesn’t think it’s a good
idea." Breastfeeding is more than a way to feed a baby, it becomes a lifestyle. While no one but the baby's mother can provide breast milk, it is helpful for the mother and the baby if the father, family, or significant others encourage this healthy relationship. "No matter what, I'm not going to breastfeed." It is not the intention of the ACNM to criticize the use of breast milk substitutes. These concerns are all very common yet all can be overcome. You can successfully breastfeed your baby and you both will reap the benefits. Breastfeeding really is best for you and your baby; and your midwife is available to help you learn.
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