i totally understand where you are coming from. i just had a baby july 9th 2007. i was surfing through the channels on the television and saw were my fiancee had ordered porno from the on demand station, just TWO days after i came home from the hospital and was asleep. that hurt me as well, considering i couldnt ge.... Read More

Hi this is tummygirl 27 years old, me and my boyfriend has been together for 9 months but I've known him for about a year. Since we been living together I've noticed that he LOVES porn movies. I never was really into that and at first it bothered me but now I'm cool with it. What I'm getting at is I'm 24 weeks pregnant with our 1st child and even though I don't agree with some of the things the woman do on the porn movies I watch them with him. Remember this one thing not telling you t.... Read More

I totally understand you, but at the same time i'm 31 wks pregnant and i have no problem with sex or anything with my man, and also I look it as though he is looking @ porn to try maybe an new and safe position with me that he see on the pron flick, don't take it that way , actuall.... Read More

Well, you know you're not the only one that feels that way. I've been with my now husband for 4 years and Every since I found out that he watches porn, even before we were married, our sex life has slowly diminished. I hadn' t dealt with this before, so I tried to understand it from his point of view although morally I think it is wrong & disgusting, and tried to watch one with him, but after maybe a minute I had to turn it off and started balling at the thought that he'd actually want to watch another woman having sex, we're married now and that's cutting it close to cheating in my opinion whether or not he'll ever meet these girls in real life. I'm always scared that it's going to turn into more than just porn.  In our 4 years we've had so many fights over this, I've confronted him so many times about how it makes me feel when he watches it and used to go into nervous breakdowns because it hurt me so bad, but he just keeps watching it. He always tries to hide it, but I always find it whether it's a dvd, tape, magazine, on the computer, ordered from cable or on his phone, which was also hurting our finances. I just had twin girls and while I was pregnant he looked at it as well and a few days after he was back at it, even when I was taking a nap or shower & he was suppose to be watching our newborns. I wish I could find a way to stop it and I tried to get him to go to counsel.... Read More

I had the same situation my boyfriend who was my fiance long story i went to vegas and came back home to find porn all over the computer and when i was away he said yes i masterbated to porn quite a few times i was so mad i can't.... Read More

Not only will this lead to distance and you feeling inadequate but it will lead to him expecting you to do the same types of things that you feel are discusting and degrading. My now X-husband would watch all kinds of porn and then expect me to do the same things he saw in the pornos. Not only did he want me to do things but he wanted me to do it on videos so he could take them to work with him. He worked on a boat. We had alot of fights a.... Read More