Hi. I am 24 years old and I am sexualy active since 20. I had 3 guys so far with two previous I slept only one time each but now I am in loving relationship, I am expecting my first baby  and my partner and I are planing on getting married. I love him to death and I can't imagine my life with nobady else but there is one problem. I NEVER HAD AN ORGASM WITH HIM. With other guys also not but with him I am bearly even "wet". He thinks that I am having orgasm almost every single time because I am pretending but I would like to have one at least. It is imposible for me to get "horny" sometimes even. And he is realy tring thats why I am pretending but I feel like something is missing. How is it that I can make myself come in 4 min and with himI can't in 20 min? And please don't tell me to talk to him because I can't. I am too shy and besides I would die if he would found out that I was lying to him about having orgasm. PLEASE HELP!