My husband has addictive behavior.  Lately, I catch him in the middle of the night watching adult programs on cable with nudity.  I will walk into the living room at midnight and ask him what he was just watching because he will frantically turn the channels.  There is no doubt what he is doing, but he lies about it.  This behavior frustrates me more than normal because he professes to be Chrisitian man.  I am partly at fault for still sleeping  in bed with our three year old daughter, but if she is not there in the middle of us my husband would come to bed and wake me up at odd hours in the night for sex-like 1 AM or 4-5AM.  He has since loss much affection towards me and it is like we are roommates at times.  He is impossible to talk to and manipulative with the counselor when we do go to counseling. We were nearly divorced for his alcoholism 2 1/2 years ago that he no longer gets any sort of help for.  WHat am I to do????