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5/27/2009
10:44 pm |
Dear Christine,
I am coming to you because I figure you are the only one that can help me communicate with my son. He moved in with his father when he was 3 yrs old because I could barely take care of myself let alone my son. Since then me and his father have been into it and he has taken my right to visit my son away from me. I know my son wants to be with me. And I miss him so very much. I was wondering how I might communicate with him and see him without being there with him. I want to help him understand that I do want to see him and that I love him so very much. I want to know what he's feeling inside and what he's thinking...please help me Miss Christine. Thank you so much....I want him here with me so bad :( |
6/24/2009
4:03 pm |
What you can do is communicate with him "Spirit to Spirit". In this space it is a place to say hello and be present with each other. It is not a place to manipulate, demand or share your sadness and loss. Being a parent means taking responsibility for our situations (whether we agree with how we got there or not) and not imposing these situations on our children. It is also not your child's job to fill you. If you miss him it is your own place to fill that void with self love and self validation.
Spirit to Spirit communication is simple. You call up a picture of your son in your head and you can talk with him there and he can talk with you. The more you connect with him.... Read More  |
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