We have been togather for 3 years. He tells me avery day for one year, he wants a baby, he wants to be the best dad. So now Im 8-10 weeks. Thats gr8 he says then he tells me he loves me but hes not in love with me.? He just wants to be friends and he is still trying to tell me where to live,? WHAT is going on with him?

Hi,

As you can imagine, it's awfully difficult to tell what's going on from hearing only one side of the story. But from what you're describing, it sound like your baby's father-to-be is a little scared--something that's not uncommon for expectant dads. He may be wondering how being a father will affect his relationship with you, what kind of father he'll be, and whether he'll ever be able to have any free time or do any of the things he loves to do. I'm sure you're worried about many of the same things, but for guys it;s a little different, since we don't have the social support, access to helpful resources, and role models that women do.... Read More