HELLO. MY HUSBAND AND I BOTH HAVE CHILDREN FROM FIRST MARRIAGES. MY KIDS ARE 7 AND 3, HIS KIDS ARE 13 AND 9. WE ARE HAVING OUR 1 BABY TOGETHER. MY PROBLEM IS THAT THE 9 YEAR OLD IS A LITTLE BRAT. I NOTICE HOW HE TREATS MY SON THE 7 YEAR OLD. HE TELLS HIM WHAT TO DO, HOW TO DO IT , WHEN TO DO IT, HOW OFTEN, WELL YOU GET MY POINT.BUT THATS NOT THE BIG PROBLEM, HE ALSO SAYS BAD WORDS TO HIS FATHER, LIKE F.U A.HOLE YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. I HAVE TOLD MY HUSBAND THAT I DON'T LIKE IT.  HE JUST SAYS THAT THATS THE WAY HIS MOTHER IS BRING IN HIM UP. AND I;M JUST FED UP BY IT. I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO SAY? I JUST FEEL THAT I DON'T LIKE HIM. WHEN EVER HE COMES TO MY HOUSE I JUST PRETEND TO BE BUSY AND I GO TO WALMART OR WHERE EVER,JUST TO GET MY SONS AND MY SELF AWAY FROM HIM. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!