I want to know what is the best method for caring for natural hair . My hair is chemical free, but is thick, wavy extremly curly and tend to dry out easily. What are some good ideas for often I should shampoo and condition my hair, as well as what types of products I should look for as well as avoid. I hate to shampoo it because it is sooooo curly and hard to style afterwards. I would say that my hair texture is that of Kimora Simmons, straight when flat ironed, but otherwise it does it own thing. Help please!