Hello I have two beautifull girls. One is 9 months and the older one is 2yrs.  How do i teach my daughter  the right things and is there a way i can tell her so that she can obey me. because is has been really mean this past months. and im afraid the little one will pick up all the bad things my older daughter does.. Also what do you thing i should buy them to keep them bussy... Thanks

That is a big question!  I think you are asking what to do when your older daughter misbehaves and how that behavior affects her 9 month old.  If this is right, then let me start out by saying it is important for you as a mother of two babies to find books on child development that can help you to learn the normal stages children go through and the best way of handling the behavior in these stages so that your children grow and learn and feel loved as well as guided and disciplined.  Having said that, I want to turn to your 2 year old.  Two year olds go through a difficult period often referred to as the "terrible twos".  It is a significant, maybe the most significant stage in our development!  It is extremely trying on parents as well as the toddler!  The behaviors usually center around a need to command their own world and have what they want when they want it.  It is very important to handle the situations that come up that try your patience, with just that:  patience!  It is important to set the limits when they have a meltdown in a firm but loving way.  Not always possible!!  But, remember, they are babies, too!  There is a lot of information out there on the &q.... Read More